Monday, January 8, 2018

10 (good) things...



Shared prayer
Don’t just pray for each other, pray with each other.  Through your spouse’s voice of prayer, you will hear his/her heart in ways you cannot imagine.

Gratitude
“Thank you” truly is one of the most powerful sentiments possible.

Encouragement
Help your lover to recognize his/her potential, dream together, and regularly let him/her know they are beautiful, special, and appreciated.

Play
Never underestimate the power of play for increasing communication, healing hurts, and creating a lasting bond.

Physical affection
Not everyone’s love language is physical touch, but physical affection, especially sex, is a gift from God meant to create a unique and special bond within a marriage.

Accountability
Being honest, owning your short-comings, and seeking to do better creates an unparalleled safety for your mate.

Forgiveness
Forgiveness is the lifeblood of any relationship between two fallen, imperfect people.

Listen
Truly seek to hear and understand your mate’s perspective.  To listen is to give your mate value and worth that connects with him/her at a deeply spiritual level.

Dating
It doesn’t have to be expensive outings, but keep seeking to woo and wow each other.

Shared service
Make your marriage mean something for the Kingdom of God together. It will bless you, your spouse, and your marriage in ways you cannot even imagine, while still blessing others too.

Don't wait for your mate to begin these things.  You be the one to get the ball rolling in 2018.

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