We Believe
that in the
beginning God created humanity to be in relationship with Him. He created man
and woman in His image (Gen. 1:26-27). Adam and Eve were created with a distinct
purpose, to work together in God’s kingdom, participating with God by caring
for creation and procreating (Gen. 1:28;
2:15). At creation, humanity’s existence was fully focused on God. The physical
life and the spiritual life were one together, and God was in their midst (Gen.
1-2).
We Recognize
that we fail
to live out God’s intent for husband and wife to participate with God. Sin entered the world breaking our spiritual
and physical connection with God. With this came isolation, shame, fear, guilt,
blame, loss of communication, and brokenness. Sin disrupts the marriage relationship
and disrupts God’s intent for husband and wife to partner together with Him to
work in His Kingdom (Gen. 3).
We Rejoice
that through
the death and resurrection of our Lord Christ Jesus, God is calling husbands
and wives back to a restored relationship with Him (2 Cor. 5:21). In Christ,
God is calling us to participate in this reconciliation (2 Cor. 5:18-20).
Through this participation, married couples are called to seek holiness, living
lives of love, forgiveness, grace, healing, restoration, submission, and sacrificial
living; with each other, within the church family, and toward the larger world
of which we are a part. In Christ, husbands and wives participate together in
reclaiming the relationship God established at creation, offer hope to others,
and seek to reconcile the world back to God.
In Marriage
husband and
wife are “one flesh” (Gen. 2:23-24), working together in God’s Kingdom and
sharing a common unity and a common purpose (Gen. 2:18). While the specifics of
how a husband and wife participate will differ from one couple to another, we
believe a husband and wife’s ongoing, joint participation is their intentional
choice to please God and serve the cause of Christ (2 Cor. 5:15). We believe
God is calling us to live out this gospel of reconciliation
as a path for husbands and wives to pursue together for the sake of the world.
The statement above is a slightly edited version of my church's marriage theology statement. Why have a marriage theology statement? If the only
difference between Christian marriage and any other marriage is that we go to
church on Sunday, what does that say about how we view marriage as a spiritual
union?
God didn’t intend for a husband and wife to share a home, some bills, a
bed, and an occasional day off, and that be all there is to marriage. He
intends for us to use our marriages to further His kingdom and to be salt and
light to the world around us.
I hope you and your spouse have considered what God is calling
you to do as a couple. It doesn’t have to be something “grand” by the world’s
standards. Just be intentional. Have a purpose in your marriage that keeps
God at the center of who you are as a couple, and frequently remind each other what your joint participation (your "one flesh" participation) in the Kingdom of God is.
What is God calling you to
in your marriage?
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