When was the last time?

When was the last time you told your spouse “I love you,” and she/he knew you really mean it?

When was the last time you surprised your spouse with an unexpected gift?

When was the last time you thanked your spouse for the things she/he does to make your life better?

When was the last time you looked at the stars together?

When was the last time you did one of your spouse’s household chores, just to make his/her life easier?

When was the last time you prayed with your spouse and not just prayed for him/her?

When was the last time you gave your spouse a handwritten love note?

When was the last time you simply said “I’m sorry,” with no “but” at the end?

When was the last time you held hands in public?

When was the last time you complimented your spouse on something he/she was doing?

When was the last time you read scripture together?

When was the last time you had a date night?

When was the last time you told your spouse how much you are attracted to her/him?

When was the last time you did something together for the Kingdom of God?

When was the last time you stayed up all night talking?

When was the last time you gave up something you wanted to do in order to do something your spouse wanted to do?

When was the last time you listened to your spouse’s heart beat?

When was the last time you told someone else how wonderful your spouse is?

When was the last time you took a walk together?

When was the last time you felt like you and your spouse truly are “one flesh”?

The little things matter.  Don't forget to be attentive to the little things that consistently communicate your love.

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