Advent is a word meaning “toward the arrival.” For hundreds of years, Christians have observed it as a way of celebrating Christ’s arrival and preparing for his next coming. This year, advent began this past Sunday, November 29th, and goes through Christmas Eve.
Whether you formally celebrate it or not, Advent has powerful implications for marriage. You see, if you are a Christian and you are called to marriage, then God expects you to use your marriage as a way of bringing glory and honor to him. He expects your marriage to reflect your love for God and your love for others who are made in the image of God. Christian marriage is not supposed to look like secular marriage with some “Christian window dressing.” If the only difference between your marriage and the non-Christian couple next door is that you go to church on Sunday, you’ve missed the point of what God is trying to do through you and your spouse together for the sake of his Kingdom.
That being said, how does your marriage reflect the hope and joy of Christ’s presence in your covenant relationship? How does the most significant event in human history, God becoming flesh and living among us, change the way you love, honor, respect, and give of yourself for your spouse? What does it mean to your marriage that in the person of Jesus Christ, “God made his dwelling among us”? (John 1:14) How does the light of his presence in your marriage penetrate the darkness of this fallen world that is trying to overtake your union?
As we look forward to Christ’s return, does your marriage point others toward the time when all things will be made new? Do they see the love, goodness, grace, redemption, and forgiveness in you that gives glimpses of the final eternal Kingdom to come?
The Advent season is upon us, so use this time of celebration and observance to renew your commitment to Christ and to your marriage. Give thanks for God’s presence in this world and in your marriage, as we anxiously await Christ’s return.
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